Officially… A spiritual director and quasi-solitary, I write and speak about contemplative spirituality and its surprising relevance for today. SkyLight Paths has published my book, Why Can’t We Talk? Christian Wisdom on Dialogue as a Habit of the Heartand my articles have appeared in places like Huffington Post Religion. I’ve also presented at a range of conferences, including Parliament of the World’s Religions.

Personally… My home is in the Christian tradition, though I drink deeply from Zen as well. In the grand scheme of LGBTQ+, I am Q, or gender nonbinary. Since a life crisis in 1993, the divine nudge has moved me away from a successful career in marketing and toward the place I inhabit today—where I write intense personal essays (like this one and this one), live with my beloved wife and animals, serve as spiritual director to the occasional seeker, and daily sit in the presence of a God who never fails to surprise me.